Dreams in a time of loss: how the departed return to those who are learning to live on
“In grief, dreams become the place where what was cut off by day still manages to be spoken through at night.”
“In grief, dreams become the place where what was cut off by day still manages to be spoken through at night.”
“Zombies come in dreams to those who have long lived on autopilot and, one night, at last notice that their feet are walking without them.”
“To witness in a dream is a particular position. The psyche shows you that something in your reality you have already seen, but have not yet worked through.”
“Such a dream is not a prophecy. It is a signal about the place where in your life you feel helpless before another’s will, and where this helplessness has long awaited a response.”
“Such a dream is not a prediction. It is a symbol of despair in which a part of you wants to end not life, but an unbearable state of things.”
“Resurrection in a dream is not mysticism. It is the image of the return of what seemed already dead in your life, to which the psyche suddenly gives new breath.”
“A funeral in a dream is not about the future. It is a sacred ritual of completion by which the psyche marks an important crossing and gives it a form.”
“Death in a dream is not a prediction. It is an ancient symbol of completion, after which something new always follows; the psyche chooses it to mark an important crossing.”
“In dreams we are killed not by enemies, but by old forms of ourselves whose time is simply up.”
“In dreams we do not kill people, but the forms we have outgrown.”
“Dreams of past lives visit those in whom a memory is beating that they have not yet called their own.”
“The afterworld visits the dreams of those in whom a large question of meaning is rising for the first time.”
“A grave visits the dreams of those in whom something has finished its life — or something is not yet fully buried.”
“A cemetery visits the dreams of those who carry within them a country where the departed live.”
“A ghost visits those who carry a story not yet fully turned into the past.”
“When the one who has gone calls you in a dream, it almost always speaks of something in your life that is asking for attention.”
“The dead come young and healthy to those in whom the loss is beginning to heal.”
“The dead ask, in dreams, those in whom they trust the request will be heard.”
“The dead speak in the dreams of those still ready to hear them.”
“The dead come in dreams to those in whom something still remembers them alive.”